Monday, November 9, 2015

Introducing the MAMA CODE


At FITMOM we believe in moms. In our 16 year history Andrea Page’s Original Fitmom programs has served and supported over 10,000 women and their families. Through our own personal experiences as mothers and countless hours spent listening, supporting and getting to know our clients, we have learned a thing or two, so this weeks blog post is about sharing some of what we know with you.

This November, during our M.A.M.A. month we wanted to introduce you to our Mama CODE.  It stands for Connect with Community, Opportunities for Self Care, Diet & Nutrition and Exercise.  The MAMA CODE are FITMOM’s Best Practices.   We know that these 4 pillars help to create a strong foundation to build a happier, more confident mother.  Some of these objectives are easier to attain than others.   We also recognize that this can be even more challenging if a woman is dealing with any emotional issues in the postpartum period, including postpartum depression and anxiety.   

Over the next few weeks we hope you consider adding the CODE to your mothering experience. Spend a few minutes thinking about each of these categories and think about the steps you can take to ensure that each one has presence in your own life.

Connect with Community.  What does that look like for you?  For many motherhood can often be an overwhelming and isolating experience.  More of us are separated by distance from our immediate families.  Grandparents may not be able (by choice or circumstance) to offer hands on support.   

Getting out of the house with your baby can be a challenge, but meeting other mothers and exploring the services that your community has to offer can help make your maternity leave experience more enjoyable.  Public Health, Libraries and the Ontario Early Years Centres all offer free programs & support groups to mothers.  Find a local group or class that you would like to attend and book it into your calendar.  

Finding activities that you enjoy will help to make this a habit and give you something to look forward to, especially in the colder months.  If there is a program that interests you BOOK IT today!  

Opportunities for self-care.  This one is a doozy!  However, we can’t stress enough how important it is for you to be kind to yourself, often! The job of mothering is 24/7 and if you don’t take a few moments to fill your cup, you will be left feeling depleted.  

Why not get started right now! Grab a notepad and write down 2-3 things that you like to do just for you.  Is it enjoying a cup of tea curled up with a magazine or Netflix?  Perhaps it’s meeting a good friend for coffee or practicing meditation.  Once you identify what you like to do, then pull out your calendar and book it.  

Next tell your partner ‘This is what I need”.  Often we anticipate that our partners will just encourage us to take the time to reboot, but if you don't tell them this is what you need, they don’t think there is a problem, or they just assume that you take that time during the day with baby (yeah-right!).  
Mother’s need consistent and regular breaks from the responsibility of motherhood.  Let your partner help you.  If he is unable or unwilling then consider asking a friend and return the favour back to her.  

Diet & Nutrition can be a beast of its own, and there is an element of planning or preparation that is often involved to make eating well a reality.  So how can we make this better?  

Andrea, the founder of FITMOM, spent a few years living in Alberta.  In her community most of the spouses worked at the oil rigs and would spend much of their time away.  As a result the women were often left on their own, but how they handled this inspired Andrea greatly.  She observed women mothering in community and a return to that philosophy of “it takes a village”.  These women supported, cared and loved one another in a way that our modern society has drifted from.  They often gathered together weekly to prepare meals.  One woman would host, the children would be contained, entertained by older siblings or held by those with free hands as the group prepared healthy meals for the week.  We think this is a fun way to make healthy meals, reduce workload and provide an opportunity to support and care for each other.  Is this something you can make happen?  

Finally, how can Exercise be a part of your daily (or weekly) experience?  All of the research shows that when women engage in regular exercise (3-5 times/week) they have an improved mental state, can tolerate stress better, see an improvement in sleep patterns and have more energy to complete daily tasks.  

Making exercise happen can take a little planning, but it is definitely doable!  The first step is to book it into your calendar.  Exercise has to be a priority, and you should treat it like any appointment you have.  Find a class you like, register and pay for it, and then go. If group classes aren’t your thing than make the commitment to get out for daily walks.   

We often wait for motivation to inspire us to get out there, but that’s not how motivation works.  When it comes to exercise sometimes you often have to drag yourself to do it.  Often putting on your running shoes is the hardest part.  But once they’re on, you are halfway there, just continue out of the house.  As you continue to make regular exercise a part of your daily or weekly routine the habit becomes established and then you will see an increase in motivation.     

As the month of November continues, we want to hear from you!  Please share your stories on how you apply the CODE to your life.  You can also make recommendations or offer suggestions on how others can integrate the CODE into their lives.  

With love,

Your FITMOM Leadership Team

Andrea, Jennifer & Sue

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